It’s Not You… It’s Your Aesthetic. (Alt. Title: It Ain’t Rocket Surgery.)

by rachaelgking on August 13, 2010 · 50 comments

Remember last summer when we all “Got Our Kvetch On, Blogging Style“? We bitched and moaned about the things that drive us INSANE when it comes to blog layouts, features, writing, etc.

Well, as a contributing editor over at DC Blogs, we deal with that shiz every time we go through some hundreds of blogs to find our favorites for a round up. Co-contributing editor Restaurant Refugee and I decided to have a drunken gchat of a rant share with y’all some of the things that (almost) automatically disqualify a post from being included.

So check it out and share your thoughts… or just see what I look like on gchat after throwing back a couple cocktails.

It’s Not You, It’s Your Aesthetic



P.S. B and I are going to be visiting the Windy City the weekend of October 9th to see my bffie Kbo run the Bank of America Chicago Marathon. This means two things:

1. My girl’s running with TNT to beat leukemia! If you have a dollar or ten to spare, please please support her!

2. If you’re in Chicago or will be or COULD be on Saturday, October 9th, let me know in the comments and I’ll add you to my email list for the meet up I’ll be plotting. What what!

P.P.S. Because it’s Friday: http://youshouldhaveseenthis.com

{ 50 comments }

1 megabrooke August 13, 2010 at 9:36 am

nice! im also running chicago! planning a little meetup at some point that weekend as well… so maybe we can combine them!

2 LiLu August 14, 2010 at 10:41 am

@megabrooke,

YES! Sounds like perfection to me! Let’s email :-)

3 imgonnabreakyourheart August 13, 2010 at 9:45 am

My new favorite term “rocket surgery.”

Excuse me, I have some rocket surgery to attend to.

4 LiLu August 14, 2010 at 10:42 am

@imgonnabreakyourheart,

Absolutely. Rocket surgery is very busy and important.

5 RondaMarie August 13, 2010 at 9:47 am

This is perfect! I will make it a point to be in Chicago that night, even if I’m not living there yet, it will be a perfect opportunity for me to see you AND to meet people in Chicago!

6 LiLu August 14, 2010 at 10:44 am

@RondaMarie,

YES! And also, hooray!!

7 linda August 13, 2010 at 9:58 am

one of my best friends is running/working that marathon :)

8 LiLu August 14, 2010 at 10:44 am

@linda,

Rock on, maybe we’ll see em there!

9 Clevelandpoet August 13, 2010 at 10:00 am

stealing rocket surgery!

also half tempted to take the mega bus to chi then but NY trip in Nov makes it unlikely.

10 LiLu August 14, 2010 at 10:45 am

@Clevelandpoet,

I hear ya. If you can, let us know! I’ll have a site to RSVP to up shortly.

11 The Maidern Metallurgist August 13, 2010 at 10:05 am

I don;t run. But I do Chicago!

12 LiLu August 14, 2010 at 10:45 am

@The Maidern Metallurgist,

I don’t run either, but I DEFINITELY do YOU!! Can’t wait!

13 Jeney August 13, 2010 at 10:44 am

Um, so… that weekend is my Quarter-Century-Old birthday weekend.

I currently have no plans.

I may need to go to Chicago now… (it IS my hometown, after all.)

14 LiLu August 14, 2010 at 10:45 am

@Jeney,

Woman. MAKE IT HAPPEN.

15 LesleyG August 13, 2010 at 11:36 am

I’m just going to wrap up About Pages Written in the Third Person in with Self-Important Blogging. GAG.

Also, Chicago– just keep your 10/9 late afternoon, pre-dinner free. Please and thanks! Hearts and rainbows and stuff!

16 LiLu August 14, 2010 at 10:46 am

@LesleyG,

You AND Kbo in Chicago = BEST WEEKEND EVER. That’s all there is to it. <3

17 Dorn August 13, 2010 at 11:38 am

I was reading the comments on the conversation between you and RR on the link. Y’all hit some sensitive nerves over there. Wow. Notice that it’s the self important jerks who were brayed! Have fun in Chi town.

18 LiLu August 14, 2010 at 10:46 am

@Dorn,

Hahaha, exactly. And fuck ‘em. Thanks!

19 Carla @ I Run, You Run August 13, 2010 at 12:55 pm

I’ll be there with a few friends running the marathon too! Woot!

20 LiLu August 14, 2010 at 10:47 am

@Carla @ I Run, You Run,

Oh, awesome!! You’ll have to come to the meet up!

21 working girl two August 13, 2010 at 1:26 pm

i live in chicago so count me in for any meet-ups that involve drinking activities please! meet ups yayyyyyyyy!

22 LiLu August 14, 2010 at 10:47 am

@working girl two,

YES! Can’t wait to see you again!!

23 Lindsay August 13, 2010 at 2:00 pm

I’ll be in Chicago in September :( Would have been great to meet you and other bloggers. I’ve never been to a meet-up, but maybe some day I’ll be in the right place at the right time.

24 LiLu August 14, 2010 at 10:47 am

@Lindsay,

Ah, BOO. One of these times, the stars will have to align…

25 Skinny Dip August 13, 2010 at 2:32 pm

The automatic music is the worst & I have the exact same reaction as you do. I always jump out of my seat a little because its always WAY TOO LOUD and then I try and shut all tabs in a frantic “omg do not want do not want make it stop” session.

26 LiLu August 14, 2010 at 10:48 am

@Skinny Dip,

Exactly. And it’s usually at WORK which makes it 10,000 times more awkward and scary. Oy.

27 Nora August 13, 2010 at 4:05 pm

ARGH.
So I’ll be in Florida on October 9th meaning I can’t get up to Chicago. GRRRR.

28 LiLu August 14, 2010 at 10:48 am

@Nora,

Oh noooooooooooooooooes!

29 Get Over Yourself! August 13, 2010 at 4:11 pm

Hahaha, thanks for the comment! Good stuff – especially that music…maybe we’ll get some rockin’ MIDI’s for our site when we update it, with some dancing icons!

PS: Anytime you feel a rant coming on – shoot us an email…we’d love to have a guest blogger every now and then!

30 LiLu August 14, 2010 at 10:49 am

@Get Over Yourself!,

Dancing FLASHING icons, preferably. ;-)

And thanks! Will do!

31 Ellen@FirednFabulous August 13, 2010 at 4:39 pm

White text/black background killllsss me. You’re pretty much saying, DON’T READ MY BLOG. Well, because you can’t!

32 LiLu August 14, 2010 at 10:49 am

@Ellen@FirednFabulous,

Exactly. I love your layout, FYI!

33 Bri August 13, 2010 at 4:53 pm

I’m always up for a bloggy meet-up, count me in!

34 LiLu August 14, 2010 at 10:50 am

@Bri,

Woot!!

35 Alyxmyself August 13, 2010 at 9:53 pm

Awespme bullskillz lady!

36 LiLu August 14, 2010 at 10:50 am

@Alyxmyself,

Haha, thanks dear!

37 yourstrulydear August 13, 2010 at 11:03 pm

have i told you lately that i heart you? because i do. also…does writing in all lower cased letters considered a grammar annoyance? …meh

38 LiLu August 14, 2010 at 10:51 am

@yourstrulydear,

Not at all. That’s a stylistic choice… and a lovely one at that. I like it. And you ;-)

39 Katrina August 14, 2010 at 6:18 am

I occasionally apologize for being a dead beat blogger, but more so because I haven’t kept up with whats in my reader or returned comments. Does that make me self-important? (poises knife over wrist).

Or dramatic?

40 LiLu August 14, 2010 at 10:51 am

@Katrina,

Nah, that’s sweet. You’re saying “I haven’t been there for YOU, never mind me.” <3

41 Dee DC (aka Gigs) August 14, 2010 at 9:12 am

Hi LiLu! I’m glad you liked my comment on this over at DC Blogs! I’ve been following your blog for sometime now too, so I’d love to be friends. :-)

42 LiLu August 14, 2010 at 10:52 am

@Dee DC (aka Gigs),

It’s done. We’re officially friends now. Get ready.

Do you have a twitter?

43 City Girl August 14, 2010 at 9:09 pm

I said it yesterday, but it bears repeating: You and Refugee need to have many more drunken GChats! Your wisdom and humor benefit us all!

44 Dysfunction Junction August 16, 2010 at 12:33 am

Not only will I be in town, I will be FIRST in line with bells on for this tweetup.

I am SO in!!!

45 Ys August 16, 2010 at 7:07 am

Hehehe I feel bad now cos I will apologise if I haven’t blogged in ages. I just think it’s polite. Not cos I think people will have been weeping without me but cos I know friends who don’t live local like to know what I’m up to. I never thought of it as being seen as an ego thing before ;)

46 Michelle August 16, 2010 at 10:41 am

This got a good Monday laugh out of me. If I had a penny for every drunk gchat conversation I wish I had posted to the internet…

47 BeckEye August 16, 2010 at 11:51 am

I was just in Chicago and I loved it. Thinking about going back for the craziness of St. Patrick’s Day.

48 Emily Jane August 16, 2010 at 1:55 pm

Crap! I’m in Chicago four weeks too early. :(

Sidenote: on vacation, there was a big sign welcoming us to one city: LEEDS: LIVE IT, LOVE IT. Totally thought of you halfway round the world :)

49 Kelly L August 21, 2010 at 12:03 am

Hmm, it *sounds* like this might be the closest you might get to my neck of the woods, even though Chicago is still a good 5-hours away, and though I have, inexplicably, never been there… it seems like something that is at least a little bit feasible, possibly… *ponders*

50 KissWithAFist August 27, 2010 at 8:55 am

Ahh, I’ve never thought about this really but it’s so true!
I think my main pet peeve is when I see the title of the post, and try to read a few sentences of it, and after that I STILL DON’T HAVE A GODDAMN IDEA WHAT ITS MEANT TO BE ABOUT. (I read through NetNewsWire and I actually unsubscribed from a blog because I kept getting posts like:

“It’s Never Just Something

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I mean seriously, how exactly does any of that make me want to read it?!

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