So…
I love you guys. No, really. You were absolutely amazing yesterday- I can’t thank you enough for all your words and support. It felt like one Southern gramma big bear hug, and I honestly can’t find to tell you how grateful I am to have all of you, and this little world.
One comment in particular brought a little “No I am NOT crying I was just cutting onions!!!” to my eye… maybe because clairemontgomerymd is a mama, (btw- read my favorite “Mary” story of hers here, it is PRICELESS), but also because she just put this whole bloggysphere thing we have going on into words so damn perfectly. Check it out:
dear mrs. lilu,
blogging is kind of like one big never-ending cyber-slumber party. we’re all playing extreme truth or dare while we laugh and cry together but when asked what we’re doing, the answer is always ‘nothing’. eavesdrop a little, but turn away with a knowing grin that we’re all going to be alright. especially lilu. your daughter rocks. she makes a lot of people’s days much brighter. she’s genuine and brilliant. you’ve done raised her right. we love her and we love you for sharing with us your baby girl. now wipe your tears and make her buy you something pretty for being the best mom ever! seriously – take advantage of this opportunity.
See? SEE??? Isn’t your heart, like, a whole lot warmer now??
*sigh of contentment*
All right, now that that’s over, let’s get on with the gross stuff! (Sorry, mamakins)…
But it is my girl Maxie‘s Would You Rather Wednesday!
So, would you rather…
A) Get caught masturbating by (on) your friend’s mom…
Grandma’s Boy – More amazing video clips are a click away
or…
B) Catch one of your PARENTS masturbating? [video clip redacted for all of our sanity]
Think about that…
Hate me yet? xoxo
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Housekeeping: Maxie and I have had to change the date of our wedding, due to the fact that I am an idiot and double-booked a weekend.
All my best friends are SHOCKED right now, let me tell you… this is their surprised face:
Anyhoosits, the festivities will now be on Saturday, the 17th of October, rather than the 24th. Everything else shall remain the same. Except that you have one week less to buy us shit that we will then have to incorporate into the ceremony somehow.
Just kidding.
Maybe.
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Um, as someone who’s heard my parents having sex (A little pre-TMI for you)…I’ll pick the first one.
And now I have the change my entire October schedule around for you. I’m a busy woman you know! (Lies. All lies.)
You’ll change it. And you’ll LIKE it.
.-= PQ´s last blog ..Please to Click to Find Goodies Inside =-.
I forget if you are the bride or groom. If bride, shame on you. You have been planning this for years.
Also, you should have checked the college football calendar. That is Maryland’s homecoming. As a man trying to cling to what’s left of my youth, I’ll be boozing it in College Park early in the day. I guess I could come to the wedding afterwards all out of it.
Oh, definitely come afterwards! I don’t think we’ll even be starting til 8 or 9 or so.
I’d SOOOOOO rather get caught than catch my parents. ICK!!!! Although my parents had my sister when I was 18, so it was pretty evident that their sex lives were alive and kicking…..
Immaculate conception!!!
.-= Jules´s last blog ..Out of Tune Tuesday – Modest Mouse – Crappy Edition =-.
I’d rather get caught. No question about it.
Brave girl.
.-= Jackie´s last blog ..TMI Thursday: Like a Virgin =-.
Grandma’s boy: best movie ever
I’d rather get caught. Fo sho.
You would. Cheeky monkey.
.-= Maxie´s last blog ..Would You Wednesday =-.
Glad you got all the support you deserve. I’d much rather get caught.
Apparently the proposition isn’t as hard as I thought…
.-= The Peach Tart´s last blog ..The Peach Tart Helps Mama Get More Bootilicious =-.
I would choose neither. Because if either happened, I’m pretty sure I’d burst into flames from sheer embarrassment.
Well, that’d be kinda cool…
.-= Badass Geek´s last blog ..In Which I Am Awkward =-.
I am cracking up at the wedding registry — dig the gator golf – that rules
My fiancee gets all the credit for that one. She is The Awesome.
I dont know that I could live with the embarassment if my parents walked in on me. I think I would rather walk in on them & hope to god I dont get traumatized for life
Your friend’s mom! Though I don’t know if that makes it better or worse…
.-= Heather´s last blog ..My what sharp teeth you have! =-.
I would rather get caught. There I said it.
xoxo.
I think that’s the first one you’ve answered
.-= Margarita´s last blog ..When life gives you lemons… =-.
Yikes. As someone who accidentally walked in on my parents doing the freaky deaky together and survived, I figure if I’ve seen that then I think I could survive catching one of them doing the nastiness alone. Although I’d rather not obviously. But being caught by one of them would be quite mortifying. I think I’d rather have one of them mortified and me just grossed out.
Also, I’m leaving for Sturgis today and I’ll miss you honeykins!
Nooooooo!!! Bye, sweetheart! Have a blast! Don’t forget to get a tattoo with my name on it
.-= Kellie´s last blog ..Tag, You’re It! =-.
My parents had three children. I am sure they only had sex three times. Any other thought than that about their sex life would scar me for the remaining years of my life….
Life scarring is bad. Definitely only 3 times…
A…hands down, or up or inside as the case may be.
I have such an interesting visual right now…
.-= ifihadtopickfive´s last blog ..When simple is very good =-.
I agree with PQ, I’ve heard my mom and stepdad (which for some reason is THAT much worse than my real dad) having sex many o’ plenty o’ times.
I’d rather be caught.
I am so glad I’m not in that club.
.-= Taylor´s last blog ..Wordless Wednesday: Explorin’ =-.
I think I have to go with Badass Geek on this one. There’s no way I could decide being that I would DIE!
Wuss!
You double booked on the weekend of your wedding, and then decided to change the wedding date instead of the other plans?!?! What does Maxie have to say about this? [note my incredulous tone]
I know. I am a hooker. But she knows this, and loves me anyway!
.-= MJ´s last blog ..My own skin =-.
I’d rather catch my parents…I wouldn’t want to be able to hang my head high at family functions.
Better that they do?
.-= littlemsblogger´s last blog ..The Lost Art of….. =-.
I’d rather get caught. I’d be able to bounce back from that way more easily.
Yeah. I think I’d need, like, three days to laugh at it.
.-= Britt´s last blog ..You Came to California for the Family, but I Came for the Fun! =-.
thanks for the shout out. and thanks for still being YOU – parents and masturbation was a GREAT follow-up! (really, could you not give your mom just a week’s reprieve at least?) i’d rather do the catching because i hate to be interrupted.
I know. Poor Mom. She’s traveling today, though… hopefully she doesn’t read…
.-= clairemontgomerymd´s last blog ..lyric of the moment =-.
I’d rather catch my parents…think of all the stuff you could get by holding it over their heads!
Oooo, you are vicious, aren’t you??
.-= Mary´s last blog ..100 Things =-.
Good thing you didn’t sign that videograpger’s contract yet…
I’m not following…
.-= Patrick´s last blog ..I Still Have A Piece Of Shit Car =-.
I would rather get caught.
You need a scheduler. I know people who do that.
Not anymore. You’re going to be far too busy with your NEW JOB!!!!!!!!!!
.-= Lemmonex´s last blog ..Nightmare No More =-.
Oh god…I would so much rather get caught. And that video…where do you find this stuff?
It is a gift, my friend. A gift.
.-= Liebchen´s last blog ..You know you wanna =-.
ANYTHING but catch my parents *cringe* hahahah! have a happy wednesday Lilu! ;P
You too, love!
.-= kym´s last blog ..Your name is WHAT? =-.
Get caught by a friend’s mom. I think that’s the opening scenario for approximately 345,789 pornos.
I really hope you made that number up.
Get caught.
Again.
Timing is the key.
I would expect nothing less from you.
.-= moooooog35´s last blog ..Motivational Filler – Marketing =-.
Can I skip this round? Is that allowed? Ew.
Never! Wuss!
.-= Miss Rosa´s last blog ..Death Rattles and Rock ‘n Roll =-.
ahh, about your comment- GOOGLE about heating up plastic!!
If you want to be scared and paranoid like me!
I actually just googled it and I found a lot of sites saying it was not accurate or harmful…so there are mixed studies and feelings, but enough to scare me!
I think I’ll stay blissfully ignorant…
Rather get busted with my chicken in my hand.
Now if it was walking in on THEIR parents masturbating I would definitely take that. I’ve seen pornos that begin that way and we all know art imitates life.
Interesting how all the guys went right to that.
.-= Narm´s last blog ..HOVA Pie Chart =-.
Definitely ‘A’ get caught… Without question.
This question is not as hard as I thought.
.-= eric´s last blog ..Glass (Vetro) =-.
I’d rather not get caught even though I have to witness a terrible thing. At least I can force them to buy me stuff as part as my mental recovery or something
Oooo, tricksy! I like it.
No contest. I would rather catch my parents again. Although the only time I did I was too little to know what was going on, but if I lived once, I could live twice, right?
I’ll be partying it up at my bachlorette party for your wedding. Sad that I can’t celebrate with you, but at least I’ll be there in spirit and booziness!
Boooo! Next time, for sure!
.-= RandomMusings24´s last blog ..For LiLu: An early wedding present =-.
I think you’ve come up with a would you rather that I just cannot answer.
However, since my dad is almost 59 and my mom is 57, I’m pretty sure that their genitalia has long since shriveled and become completely useless so they cannot actually do anything remotely sexual.
Oh, I’m sure they could surprise you…
.-= Mike´s last blog ..A use for Super Models =-.
I would much rather be caught. Fo shore! I looked at your registry…heated body massager eh? I know what that’s for
!
We have no idea what you’re talking about. WINK.
.-= Nikki´s last blog ..Paella for sixty? =-.
I’d rather get caught.
I have no shame.
Filed under “Reasons Why I Love You.”
This is easy. (read: has happened to me) I would rather get caught. I dont want to see my dad push one out. Gross.
Leave it to you to take it to a whole new level. Love it.
.-= LivingWicked´s last blog ..Born to Inspire =-.
Hell, I’d take both of these over most of the WYRs you and Maxie come up with.
(This is me talking big because I don’t really want to choose…ugh)
Come on! You know the rules, woman!
.-= shine´s last blog ..This is how you found my blog? =-.
I would so rather get caught! If I ever walked in on my parents like that I’d freak out.
I’d freak out either way, I think…
.-= Lindsay´s last blog ..Yikes =-.
Actually, I would rather walk in on the parents, because it is a lot less embarrassing than the faces I make when I am whacking it…
Your “O” face isn’t your best?
.-= Skylers Dad´s last blog ..It’s Another Bad-Tat Tuesday!! =-.
Definatly catching my parents, because picking me being caught would mean admitting that I masturbate. I’ll never admit to that. I mean I really don’t.
Ha! GOTCHA!
unfortunately this isn’t a WYRW for me, it’s a “which one of those things has actually happened to you.” my answer is the second letter in the alphabet. siiiigh.
And you survived!! Congratulations, my dear, and yikes.
.-= Lusty Reader´s last blog ..Phoning it in =-.
I’ma going to have to go with B there ma’am. Option one is too embarrassingly icky to contemplate and the second one, while nasty, gives you ample opportunity to whip out a gold one liner or at least use the nasty event as future blackmail material when playing your folks against one another. No? Plus then you can make THEM pay for your therapy.
NOW you’re thinking. And now you’ll have that gold one liner ready. You are WELCOME.
.-= Vegetable Assassin´s last blog ..Evil Google Overlords =-.
Your feed was broken on my Google Reader, so I’ve been missing out on your shit.
ITS FIXED.
Oh, and I can now make your wedding. Don’t forget, I want a part in the wedding even though you didn’t ask me to begin with. WHICH IS RIDICULOUS.
Don’t worry, since I’ll be the one Maxie will cheat on you with, bish.
HOOKER!!! I’ve been missing your face round here. And I’m so glad you can come- OF COURSE you are in the wedding party!!! You won’t be stealing my woman, though. I don’t share.
.-= Katie´s last blog ..You Gratify Me =-.
I’M TOO TRAUMATIZED TO ANSWER- I JUST WANTED TO DROP IN AND SAY- I’VE BEEN AWAY BUT i ADORE YOU, YOU CRAZY FUCKING PSYCHO.
ps- I put it all in caps so you’ll know how serious I am because NOTHING says SERIOUS like CAPS!
Hahaha degree of seriousness NOTED. I miss you!!
.-= repliderium.com´s last blog ..Bud Lime =-.
I’d rather get caught. At least it would be by someone who I could avoid for the rest of my life.
Fair enough. I should have made that a caveat.
.-= Cassie´s last blog ..WW: I didn’t do it! =-.
We’ve given you FOUR awards, CHECK IT OUT!!!!!
Look at you, all generous and shiz! Thank ya!!!
.-= Constructive Attitude´s last blog ..And the award for laziest authorS goes to…….. =-.
Seriously? Who put Nickelback on the registry?
Oh, come on. It’s too good not to.
.-= Matt´s last blog ..I’m a fool for contests =-.
Um, I’m pretty sure my parents don’t even have “junk”, so catching them would be kind of difficult. And disturbing. Plus, being caught by a friend’s mom always has bow-chicka-bow-wow possibilities. Or I could play it off as something else, like checking for… no wait, that’s worse.
Lose-lose, isn’t it?
As a result of my lack of shame, I’d rather get caught. I agree with Cassie, I can avoid my friend’s mom forever but not my parents. And I think they’d get sick of me giggling/gagging every time I saw them. I mean, seeing the magnet for some lube company on my dad and stepmom’s fridge in high school was enough, thanks.
HAHAHA!!! You should have stolen it.
i’d rather get caught. at least i’d have a visual of the person’s shocked face and not a visual of ….well you know.
ick.
Ick is right.
.-= Down and Out Chic´s last blog ..Ruche dress two ways and a winner =-.
I am so voting for NEITHER.
UGh. Both would be glamorously awk-ward *sing song voice* I’d probably wish I’m dead or vice versa. *lol*
Hahaha LOVE the sing song voice!
.-= Auishtha´s last blog ..Thank you Cory. =-.
totally A. i’d like to think it would be far too awkward for my friend’s mom to bring the subject up with my parents, so that would be a win.
You HOPE…
.-= Alice´s last blog ..why don’t you suggest weekly root canals while you’re at it? =-.
As a mother, am I exempt from answering? Glad you have such an awesome mom- doesn’t surprise me one bit. Since you haven’t answered me yet on exemption – get caught.
No one is exempt! Well played
.-= Margo´s last blog ..Whatever It Was: A Ghost Story =-.
Get caught by my friends hot dad. WHAT?
Ooooo. Is it bad I can totally think of one, too?
.-= Elizabeth Marie´s last blog ..Bella of VINTAGE LOLLIPOPS!!!! =-.
ack! a? i don’t know…horrible!!
You love it.
.-= hanako66´s last blog ..Pug Love =-.
I would much rather get caught! Grandma’s Boy, “sit on my faceee.”
Hahaha! Gawd, I love that movie.
clairemontgomerymd is a genius. and perfectly stated what our corners of the interwebs are all about.
and double booked? that’s exactly why i have to buckle down and commit to one thing and not say maybe to a million because i’ll then try to make it to ALL million or sit at home because i don’t want to offend anybody.
She really did, didn’t she? And I have so much trouble saying no… I hate disappointing anyone!
.-= Siovhan´s last blog ..generation why. =-.
A- definitely A.
Stellar.
.-= Jill Pilgrim´s last blog ..What I Did On My Summer Vacation, OR Why Summer Is Not Conducive To People With My Affliction =-.
Quoting Flight of the Conchords? Love it!
And I’m still mulling it over…
I named my cat “Murray” for a reason…
.-= Susan´s last blog ..backtracking =-.
I think it’s great that you’re getting married a week earlier.
I don’t even know what to think about the options you’re giving today.
Thanks! I don’t blame you.
Um. Yeah. Number 1. Been there. I got over it. Ahhh, you’ve given me a TMI.
Oooo! Just in time for tomorrow, too!
.-= Colby´s last blog ..As seen on tv =-.
Nooooooooooo. Can not choose. p.s. I’m not surprised one bit that your mama’s so cool.
Haha TRUE. I came from somewhere, right?
.-= Kristin´s last blog ..BonBon Deal of the Day =-.
I’d rather catch them…then all the embarrasment is on them..not me!
Ooooo evil. I like it!
.-= caroline´s last blog ..funny thing! =-.
What a lovely letter to your momma in that comment.
She is a good egg, that Claire.
.-= mandy´s last blog ..Fruits and Veggies Make It Healthy Right? =-.
what a great comment! its a good analogy – this giant slumber party!
I know! It warmed my heart.
.-= alissa´s last blog ..plum pretty sugar =-.
YOUR GETTING MARRIED ON MY BIRTHDAY!!!!! well day before, but whatever!
It counts! Awesome!
.-= Woolly´s last blog ..I’m full =-.
wow, this was a toughy…i think i would rather be caught by my friend’s mom…can I pick which one?
Even though I have seen lots of movies, I had never seen that one, and that scene with Lara Croft was hilarious. I cannot imagine actually getting it on said friend’s mom….
Oh you HAVE to see it! Grandma’s Boy! Go! Do it now!
.-= Skippy´s last blog ..Does this bike make my butt look big? =-.
I’d totally rather get caught in the act than catch one of them. Ew. Gross. I don’t even want to think about this any more whatsoever.
.-= MinD´s last blog ..Fighting the addiction. =-.
augh! [hands over ears] I am not listening, I am not listening! I didn’t hear the question. Trauma! Trauma!
But I have to say one thing. I am sooo touched by that really wonderful comment. Yours in cyberslumberpartydom, new subscriber spleeness.
.-= spleeness´s last blog ..And this is why I do not eat off the floor. =-.
Aw. I love it when the Internet families we’ve created make everything seem right again! xoxoxoxo
.-= meleah rebeccah´s last blog ..One Man’s Trash, Is Another Man’s Treasure [Or, Another Man's Responsibility To Clean Up!] =-.
Duh! Friends mom…okay well in that case – yeah, I would rather them catch me
Still AWKWARD, though, however you slice it…
.-= Heather´s last blog ..My what sharp teeth you have! =-.
Amuse I try.
Amuse you succeed.
.-= LivingWicked´s last blog ..Born to Inspire =-.
OKAY. FINE. I’d rather get caught. I’ve lived through all kinds of awkwardness and embarrassment, but I would never be able to look at my parents again if I caught them…in the act.
Though I have already heard the sex. Actually, I had to explain sex to my baby sister because of that. Horror.
Ewwwwwwwwwwwww. And I cannot WAIT to share your TMIT tomorrow…
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